How to Start a Conversation With a Girl

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  2. Step 1: Start With a Greeting
  3. Step 2: Compliment Her
  4. Step 3: Talk About Something You Both Have in Common at the Moment
  5. Step 4: Ask About Her Interests and Hobbies
  6. Step 5: Request Her Recommendation or Guidance
  7. Step 6: Use a Pick-Up Line
  8. Step 7: Ask About Her Day
  9. Conclusion

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Step 1: Start With a Greeting

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Step 2: Compliment Her

{"blocks":[{"key":"c8qbj","text":"Everyone likes a decent compliment every now and then, especially girls who can sense a nice, sincere observation. You can comment on her cute dress, beautiful haircut, or anything else as long as you remain respectful.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":219,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":219,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":219,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":219,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"40v6q","text":"Make your remark simple and straight to the point to make a good impression. Don’t overdo it not to sound too needy or creepy.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":126,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":126,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":126,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":126,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"4u7pu","text":"If she smiles and accepts the compliment, you can go ahead and introduce yourself if you two don’t already know each other. Tell her your name, then talk about your interests or profession if she seems interested.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":213,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":213,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":213,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":213,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"8o54v","text":"A good thing to do here is to let her know why you approached her.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":66,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":66,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":66,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":66,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}}],"entityMap":{}}

Step 3: Talk About Something You Both Have in Common at the Moment

{"blocks":[{"key":"5qmqj","text":"It’s a fantastic idea to include a topic that you both have in common at the beginning of a conversation. For example, if you two have a mutual friend or co-worker, you could talk about how you know that person and ask her how she first met them.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":246,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":246,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":246,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":246,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"264om","text":"If you’re at a convention or concert, it’s pretty easy to go on and on about the artist or band you’re both here to see.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":120,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":120,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":120,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":120,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"bb5u1","text":"This tip is usually the most effective way to start a conversation with someone you like. It gives you a big opportunity to get to know her and let her know more about your personality.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":185,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":185,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":185,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":185,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"91bgo","text":"Again, stay as casual as possible but show enough interest to let her know that you care. Watch her body language to see if she’d like to take the conversation further or if she’s losing attention.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":197,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":197,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":197,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":197,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}}],"entityMap":{}}

Step 4: Ask About Her Interests and Hobbies

{"blocks":[{"key":"cvddl","text":"Girls like it when you’re more interested in their personal preferences and hobbies than their physical looks. Sure, it feels good when you say she’s beautiful, but it's even better when you make it apparent that you’d like to know more about her interests.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":257,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":257,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":257,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":257,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"fgebf","text":"Here, you could ask her directly what she loves to do in her free time. If you’d rather not, you can use the indirect approach. For example, you could hint at a book or TV show you’ve been binging and then ask what her favorites are.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":233,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":233,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":233,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":233,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"3kiu3","text":"If she likes where the conversation is headed, she’ll tell you what she likes. Or, if she has other hobbies, she’ll be open to sharing them with you.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":149,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":149,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":149,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":149,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"28fd","text":"Make sure to keep the topics neutral, and pay attention when the girl speaks. It’s also recommended that you repeat some points she says later in the conversation. This way, she’ll know you’re a good listener.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":209,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":209,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":209,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":209,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"6qjgk","text":"Refrain from trying so hard to find things in common, unless there are actually things you both like. If you keep agreeing to everything she says, she’ll know this is not the case, and it may be an instant turn-off.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":215,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":215,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":215,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":215,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}},{"key":"aub6b","text":"You must stick to your personality, show confidence, and remain interested in what she says without getting too eager.","type":"unstyled","depth":0,"inlineStyleRanges":[{"offset":0,"length":118,"style":"color-rgb(0,0,0)"},{"offset":0,"length":118,"style":"bgcolor-transparent"},{"offset":0,"length":118,"style":"fontsize-11pt"},{"offset":0,"length":118,"style":"fontfamily-Arial"}],"entityRanges":[],"data":{}}],"entityMap":{}}

Step 5: Request Her Recommendation or Guidance

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Step 6: Use a Pick-Up Line

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Step 7: Ask About Her Day

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Conclusion

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